Thursday, January 31, 2008

HOME: A place of solitude, of refuge, of calm...a haven

Thursday, January 31st, 2008



WHAT? This may be what every decorating magazine and HGTV says, but this is not the state of my mailing address.


Once upon a time I envisioned my home and how I would decorate it and how clean and organized Iwould keep it. It would be filled with the sweet smell of something baking in the oven combined with a wonderful scent from my favorite candle. I would sit on my beautifully custom uphosltered sofa and read my latest novel while sipping a comforting cup of gourmet coffee and listening to my favorite music...AND THEN REALITY SET IN.


OK, so not exactly a Calgon commercial but it works for me. Don't get me wrong, I love my home. My house is filled with lots of love...and lots of kids (8 year old triplet girls, Maddie, Ellie & Ronnie, as well as any visiting friends we might include...this changes by the moment). Lots of dogs (one 17 year old mutt named "Puppy" and his "replacement dogs" two 2 year old white Miniature Schnauzers, Jack & Wrigley) and a very conversational and rarely subdued husband, Brian. All of this means...lots of noise!


Like I said, I love my home and all who reside in it. They are all an intentional part of my life that I cherish and adore. I just never imagined the chaos and clutter that a house full of life would bring! I am very blessed and forunate to have the life that I live. I would never take anything for granted and give thanks everyday for my family, friends and the opportunities that I have...but it is just a little different than I had anticipated.

One thing I do know for sure is that every day holds something unexpected and as I start the day, I have to just take a deep breath, put on my comfy shoes and say... BRING IT ON!